Stop Searching
You know, the thing about us humans are that we always feel
the need or validation or sense of fulfilment to find something that is ‘right’
for us. The job that is ‘right’ for us, the spouse that is ‘right’ for us, clothes
that suits us or are ‘right’ for us. We keep searching for things to make us
happy and fill our hearts with pure content. We're so stuck at the idea of finding something that's right for us. Well fuck having everything ‘right’
in your life. Stop searching for every thing
‘right’ in your life. We always expect to find things that is right for us. And
listen to me when I tell you this, for God’s sake or the sake of your sole happiness,
do not expect. Expectations can kill.
If you expect to find it, and for it to only turn out otherwise, trust me you’ll
only end up being disappointed.
Now, what you need to
do instead is to accept. Acceptance is one of the keys to a happy life and
happier you. You have to ultimately learn to accept that things will not always
go your way and you will not always get what you want in life. That is just how
life is, and you’re not the only one. So, don’t feel like you’re the only
person that is going through this. I once told someone dear to my ever so forgiving
heart that I always get what I want and his reply was ‘Well, I can’t say it’s
the same for me’ haha well, it turns out that I do don’t get whatever I want. I get what I need. And that is just what you
need, but you just don’t realise it most of the time and feel that life is not
going your way. Here’s a self-help tip: “Getting what you need will help you
more than getting what you want” – Talia Anne
Don't give up,
xoxo, Talia
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