Be Alone.

09:48:00 Talister 0 Comments

Everybody needs to be alone at some point in their lives. It doesn't matter how old you are or what stage in your life you're in. You need to be alone. And I'm not talking about 'alone time'. I'm talking about actually being alone and having time for yourself for a good period of time. It can be a year, or two or three. To really figure out who you are and learn about yourself is all part of growing and being left alone is what you need to do to get there. Have meals by yourself, watch a movie, go to a concert by yourself. Do anything you would do with someone else by yourself. It is the most refreshing and liberating feeling you could ever experience. And no that is not sad, like some people would like to think or assume it is. It instead portrays your strength and dependency as a person.

Sometimes in life, in order to save someone else, you need to save yourself first. You need to learn and accept yourself first before doing the same for another. And sometimes, time for yourself is exactly what you need to do to get there.